Disclaimer: I don't own Star Wars. That aside, I suppose it could be said that I do own Tamrin Shalaar, Bail and Breha Solo, Padmé Skywalker, and my versions of Anakin Solo and Ben Skywalker.
I don't follow the established EU. It's too convoluted (and much of it is too implausible) for my tastes. Instead, I have my own version of what happened after Endor. In order to really appreciate this story, here are some things you might want to know about the background of my version of the EU:
Following the Battle of Endor, the remnants of the Empire are quickly dealt with and the galaxy is at peace (at least as much as it ever is). The Alliance begins the arduous process of building a government, under the capable leadership of Mon Mothma.
Han and Leia are married a few months after the Battle of Endor, in a ceremony which is a good deal more public than either of them would have preferred.
Shortly after Endor, they also meet Tamrin Shalaar, an Alliance informant working in a diner on Coruscant. She assists them in several missions, and they strike up a friendship.
About two years after her marriage, Leia gives birth to twins, whom she names Bail and Breha, after her adopted parents. Three years later, she and Han have a son, and after a good deal of deliberation, they name him Anakin, as a gesture of reconciliation with Leia's biological father.
Not long after Anakin's birth, Luke and Tamrin are wed, and they succeed in keeping their wedding considerably more subdued than Han and Leia's. Nevertheless, it still makes quite the news item.
Three years after their wedding, Luke and Tamrin's son Ben is born. A little over five years after this, their daughter Padmé is born.
At the time of Revenant it has been twelve years since Endor. Presuming they were 20 in ANH, Luke and Leia are now 34. Tamrin is around 32, and who knows how old Han is. Bail and Breha are 10, and Anakin is 8. Ben has just turned 5, and Tamrin is six months pregnant with Padmé.